Advantage Counseling

Services

At Advantage, we are devoted to the highest level of care for the clients we get to serve. In light of that commitment, we are only taking clients who are committed to scheduling weekly sessions. If you have questions about any of these options or if you wish to inquire about the services we offer please call (913) 735-6272, or use the button below to contact us.

Couples Counseling

I have felt the tension between touching a deep longing that I want so desperately to be met and yet finding myself behaving in ways that are not conducive to my partner seeing me and responding in how I need them. The words are so hard to come by in these moments and yet there can feel like such an urgency to get the response you are needing from your loved one.

I will help you and your partner slow these loaded moments down so that the sharer can get more clear of what they are feeling and needing and the hearer can actually get access to the call for connection that is beneath what typically sets them off.

Achiever Therapy

You are a go-getter. You work hard in your life and have big dreams and goals. Before you know it, another opportunity presents itself and you are off and running again.

But that’s the struggle. You are so busy “doing” you rarely slow down to “be”. In all the achieving, you haven’t asked yourself how you feel about your life. Is what you are doing still what you want to be doing? Does what has been central in your life still feel central or do you find yourself wanting more space for friendship, family, leisure, or play?

Let’s let your soul catch up with you, understand what truly is “you” now and what is not, and live with greater authenticity and aliveness in the now.

Pleaser Therapy

Pleaser Therapy

You are an empath. Your presence has a way of inviting the vulnerable and deeper parts of people. You have a way of “chameleon-ing” to people and environments that reward you for making them feel valued and comfortable.

But you feel hallow inside and rarely connect with what you like, feel, or need, and long for. You are so caught up in accommodating and meeting everyone else’s needs that the essentialness of your own self gets lost or deeply hidden.

And yet this way of being is often how you stay connected to your people because surely if your feelings, thoughts, and needs are known you would be rejected or “too much”. At least that’s the belief deep inside.

As this dynamic shows up in our work together, we will try and acknowledge what it is being replayed and work out what it could be like to play with assertion, aggression, and letting me and others into what you feel and need. You deserve to exist, let’s work towards that aim together.

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I am now able to offer myself more care and kindness, which leads to further awareness and understanding, because of the work Alex and I did together.

Former Client

Alex always made me feel very safe and welcome, and made sure his space was always neat and comfortable. His manner of speaking, how he asked questions, and listened intently by leaning in and maintaining eye contact helped me know that he genuinely cared and made me feel seen and heard.

Former Client

Working with Alex felt very natural and safe. As my first experience with a therapist, I wasn’t sure what to expect, but I knew I got lucky with Alex.

Former Client

Alex's manner of speaking, how he asked questions, and listened intently by leaning in and maintaining eye contact helped me know that he genuinely cared and made me feel seen and heard.

Former Client

As I worked with Alex, I noticed I began to be more comfortable and welcoming of all parts of myself, especially the areas I was ashamed of and unwilling to acknowledge.

Former Client

From very early on in our time together Alex was very attuned to my needs and gave me the space and respect I needed to be able to grow.

Former Client

During our time together Alex helped me to develop the ability to have grace for all the elements of my past and my story, which has continued to help me since our time together.

Former Client

Begin your journey

If you’re ready to take the first step towards feeling more authentically like yourself and connected to your partner, I'm here to help. Contact me today to schedule a consultation and start your journey towards genuine connection with yourself and others.